The Perfect Wedding
Hi there, Reader;
What is a perfect wedding? Perfection is something we all strive to achieve. Do you try to strive perfection? Weddings are thought of by girl from childhood, that is if that is one of the things she is interested in. The imagination of that child growing to womanhood and finally meeting the man of her dreams means her truth is becoming a reality.
In many cases it is a dream that her friends, family have contributed to her whole life. Perfection defined:
tthe condition, state, or quality of being free or as free as possible from all flaws or defects.
"the satiny perfection of her skin"
a person or thing perceived as the embodiment of perfection.
"I am told that she is perfection itself"
the ideal, a paragon, the ne plus ultra, a nonpareil, the crème de la crème, the last word, the ultimate, the best; More
the action or process of improving something until it is faultless or as faultless as possible.
"among the key tasks was the perfection of new mechanisms of economic management"
What makes a wedding beautiful to the bride might not be the venue, flowers, decor, budget or then again it can be. Sometimes brides do what the people around her expect. Isn't a wedding about the love the couple feels. It is the love between them that is suppose to be celebrated. Not the things around them.
The talk of weddings makes me think of the relationship. The people involved not the things. The decor is to create a glimps of the people without pring into their personal lives. Like a movie star we all have that desire to make it beautiful.
Love defined: a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person
attraction that includes sexual desire; the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship; a person you love in romantic way.
What make is perfection is that these two people met. At the perfect time in each others life other wise they would not be getting married. Forced marriages do not last very long in todays world and love has it's challenges. Maybe she found what she thought was a sign from him or maybe he found what was a sign for her. It could be they had a child together and want to do what is right.
Here is my recommendations to you if you are a guest.
1. If you do not believe in love, don't attend a wedding.
2. If you are their to criticize the couple don't attend the wedding.
3. If you don't believe children should partake in the wedding, don't attend.
4. If you don't believe. that there is perfection in weddings then don't attend.
It's simple faith defined:
: strong belief or trust in someone or something
: belief in the existence of God : strong religious feelings or beliefs
: a system of religious beliefs
Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. Hebrews 11:11 (NIB)
Could it be that the biggest wedding on TV right now was found by one simple flower?
Next time you are invited to a wedding, please believe the best for the couple and maybe their lives will be blessed. By blessing them you just might bless your own. If you can't then don't show up. Respectfully decline when the RSVP's are sent. Honestly, your reason for not believing, is unimportant to the couple. They are going forward with their own lives.